← Family Command Center
I'm worried they'll borrow, steal or gamble again
That worry is real and it makes sense.
Lock up cash, cards and valuables. Don't feel guilty about it.
Tell relatives not to lend money. This protects everyone, including the person gambling.
If money or items go missing, say so directly and follow through on your boundaries.
Tools that help
Common questions
- I'm worried they'll borrow, steal or gamble again: where do I begin?
- That worry is real and it makes sense. Lock up cash, cards and valuables. Don't feel guilty about it.
- What should I avoid?
- Avoid big decisions in the first heated moment, paying off gambling debts with no plan, and carrying this alone.
- Is there support for me?
- Yes. Gam-Anon is for family members, and the national helpline at 1-800-MY-RESET (1-800-697-3738) helps loved ones too.
- Who can I talk to today?
- Call or text 646-721-2056 to talk to a real person. For the national gambling helpline, call 1-800-MY-RESET (1-800-697-3738). If you feel unsafe, call or text 988.